I know this discourse has ran its course in our community for thee longest time, but I think now we need to call a spade a spade on both ends of the aisle now. Both sides do the same thing and they have their reasons for dating outside their race, some toxic and some not. It really depends on the character of the person at the end of it. I just think it's hypocritical on both sides to look down on people that do state those toxic reasons and at this point I feel as though it needs to be on a person-to-person basis when it comes to it. Trying to lump people that do in one category does more harm than good.
I know this discourse has ran its course in our community for thee longest time, but I think now we need to call a spade a spade on both ends of the aisle now. Both sides do the same thing and they have their reasons for dating outside their race, some toxic and some not. It really depends on the character of the person at the end of it. I just think it's hypocritical on both sides to look down on people that do state those toxic reasons and at this point I feel as though it needs to be on a person-to-person basis when it comes to it. Trying to lump people that do in one category does more harm than good.
I meant to type "it's hypocritical BECAUSE both sides state toxic reasons sometimes and it depends on the person".